A reader sent in an email last night with a couple of good questions:

from: a visitor
to: clistdating.com
subject:Questions

Have you guys considered setting up your own casual dating service?

Considered but not followed up on, so who knows.

I'm wondering what you think is the best casual hook-up site? You seem to recommend Adult Friend Finder and Alt.com which seem awesome, but I can't really budget the money they're asking for right now. Craigslist has been only spam and okcupid seems to be only for people looking for long term commitments.

The question of best really depends on a lot of things and that changes as time goes along. Right now Okcupid and Plenty of Fish are free to members but, as you have noticed, they do cater to LTR folks. That being said, there are still plenty of horny females there that want to get laid regardless of what the text on thier profile says. Both of these places have gotten me laid.

SwingLifeStyle is the next level up in that line as it is explicit about hooking people up for sex but is also free. You can pay for some perks like being able to validate(vouch for) other folks and things like that. It's free membership is basically restriction free and fully usable. Even if you do decide to pay for additional service, it is remarkably cheap.

Adult FriendFinder and ALT.com are the top of the line because they really have high membership world wide (The highest for casual sex and NSA dating). You can test out the waters on both of them for free. When you see how many real people there are in your area, you will probably want to try out the pay part of the service to get more attention, more contacts and more hot dates.

Craigslist is tricky, it is free but takes time and patience to learn how to use. There is a LOT of spam and scams that trick the crap out of new commers but a few months of paying attention and being cautious can change that for anyone. We intend to create some articles with tips and tricks that show people how to use craigslist better for NSA encounters. We also intend to review more of the best adult personals sites suggested by friends once we personally make sure they are worth it.

Thanks for this awesome site.

Thanks for your input and questions. :^)